I loved you first: but afterwards your love
Outsoaring mine, sang such a loftier song
As drowned the friendly cooings of my dove.Which owes the other most? my love was long, And yours one moment seemed to wax more strong; I loved and guessed at you, you construed me and loved me for what might or might not be –Nay, weights and measures do us both a wrong.
For verily love knows not ‘mine’ or ‘thine;’
With separate ‘I’ and ‘thou’ free love has done, for one is both and both are one in love: Rich love knows nought of ‘thine that is not mine;’ Both have the strength and both the length thereof, both of us, of the love which makes us one.
How It Started
A story of Iyin and Yinka started as “Aburo and Egbon” meaning my junior and senior 😂😂. They grew up together in the ancient city of Ibadan back in the days. I can imagine how long was that. It wasn’t all love because of how little Iyin was. Years passed until last year when my beautiful friend Iyin told me about a certain guy disturbing her on Facebook. I laughed hard because my friend is just a character. Funny enough he has always been trying to reach her by communicating through Facebook, but she didn’t give him face. At this time Yinka was in London for his masters and also schooling. Finally he got her response on Facebook after a long period of trying to get her. Am sure it’s because of how my friend Iyin looks physically, always well dressed, beautiful, curvy like toolz, business minded, and naturally intelligent.
So the communication grew stronger, I see my friend always smiling and happy whenever I come around to see herOne day she told me he wants to marry her. I was like woow!!! This guy is an action figure, no time for ulabalu hehe!!!. I had to ask her again is this really true, she was like yea but was a big surprise to her too. We didn’t know he was serious, until she keeps telling me a lot about him. Okay this is a true story, iyin I have to say this. She wasn’t that interested at first because she was putting history in front of her future, meaning she was like I call him Egbon Yinka it will be some how and all. 😂😂😂.
I had to tell her to wake up from that past and let’s face reality. He’s in london and ready to marry you. Omor jump inside bus and move..lol!!!
To cut the long story short, Iyin traveled to london to meet him and also do what she does best “cook”. Surprise to me when she came back, it was a ring on the finger. See screaming!!!!!!!!!! Was happy and filled with joy and happiness for my friend turned sister Iyin. Egbon turn husband, mehn guys don’t dull when it comes to love. When your heart tells you to give in, gamble and jumo into it. We leaving in a world of risk, if you don’t “no reward as they say”. It might not work for most people but whatever ways you feel, it must to happen.
Please also pray hard when finding a spouse. It’s not easy out there in the world of tigers and lions, put it to God to see you through by opening your eyes to see the future between you and your future spouse.
My dear Iyin am so happy that the Lord has finally opened up to you, and also brought you out of the wilderness. His grace will forever follow you in Jesus name. God bless your union, house, and husband in Jesus name.