The Joy Of Giving 

Don’t you just love stories? Stories have power and they help us use more of our minds, imagination, and creativity, helping us to discover new things about ourselves and about the world we live in.

A woman who was traveling alone in the mountains found a precious stone in a stream.
The next day she met another traveler who was hungry, the woman opened her bag to share her food.

The hungry traveler saw the precious stone and asked the woman to give it to him.

She did so without hesitation.

The traveler left, rejoicing in his great fortune.

He knew the stone was worth enough to give him security for a lifetime.

But a few days later he came back to return the stone to the woman.

“I’ve been thinking,” he said,

“I know how valuable the stone is, but I give it back in the hope that you can give me something even more precious. Give me what you have within you that enabled you to give me the stone.”

The woman smiled, “The joy of giving!”

Photos: Skip A Meal 4 From His Treasure House Church Abuja

What a successful outreach today with the team of Skip A Meal, reaching out to the children and mothers of Damagaza village Abuja.

Personally I want to thank my senior Pastors for this vision and initiative. 

Pastor Seun
Pastor Godwin

Daddy and Mummy Uwuba’men, God will continue to strengthen you and bless your home in Jesus name.

Team at work

The village representative

Mum’s happy to have something for the afternoon

Lovely children waiting for lunch
The Team
Pastor Seun in action

Group picture with the team and some children

Prayer Tuesday: Against Arrogance And Superiority

Loving shepherd, I know you have been a wise and loving father to me. Help me share the care that you have lavished on me with the person who most needs of today. Please protect me from arrogance and feelings of superiority, and gently humble me in the ways that make me a more useful tool in your hands. In Jesus name I pray. Amen!!! 

It’s a serious prayer that needs to be checked in our daily lives. I do it sometimes unknowingly, feeling superior to others. Thank God I don’t wear that coat anymore. Whenever I drift to that arrogant character, the Holy Spirit draws me back. 

Let’s be humble and also share the same care you receive from our heavenly father to others to benefit. 

Joyce Meyer Ministries: Love Life Women’s Conference 2018

Where are my ladies, sisters and women of faith. It’s going down in 2018 with “love life conference 2018” in Tampa Florida United States. 
After a successful love life conference this year, the next scheduled event will be full of exciting speakers and artists. It’s going to be an upgrade and next level package. 

You don’t want to miss this time!  With $20 you are in already. So hurry and register by going to to get your sit and also get more information. 

Stay tuned!!! 

Before You Call The Wedding Planner: By Funke Egbemode 

My best friend sent this great write up to me this morning. After reading, it got to me and decided to share because it doesn’t belong to my phone, but for the whole world to read and be careful. 

Marriage is becoming a risky business by the hour. Instead of enlarging the family, it is reducing it. When your son or daughter marries, you expect grandchildren as dividends. Now, your initial investment gets liquidated in a pool of blood, without recourse to you. One infuriated sick and weak girl just grabs a kitchen knife and carves up your son in a flash, ripping out your heart and dreams of being surrounded by happiness in your old age. One silly boy in a moment of uncontrollable blinding fury stabs your daughter in the throat, leaving you reeling in that kind of pain no parent can recover from. Wives killing their husbands. Husbands killing their wives. How did our innocent babies become murderers? How did we miss it? What did we do wrong, or failed to do that is filling our doorsteps with shoes of mourners and our once happy homes with wailings and gnashing of teeth? Did the Bible not promise that our children will surround our tables and that we will not cast our young? So, what is going on? It is bad enough that more and more young marriages are failing. It is already a sad testimony that more women are becoming breadwinners and telling our sons when to snore in their own beds. But this added blood and gore and loss and unending pain… Or are you not worried?

Sure, the latest tragedies happened far from you but they are really closer than you think. If you still think these recent spousal murders do not really concern you, take a look at your daughter, your son and tell yourself you can vouch for the spouses they will end up with. And if your children are already in their 20s and of marriage age, swear you are not a teensy bit concerned about the suitors milling around them. That fine-boy-no-pimples full of smiles and politeness, does he have anger issues? Is he a keeper, a reaper or a taker? That babe who is already calling your son ‘Ayo mi’ (my joy) or ‘honey’, can you trust her with your greatest treasure, your brilliant caring son?
There is no retirement age for parents. We are parents for life. Our job is cut out for us and we must do it with all our heart and might. There is really no short cut. This is our calling until we are called home by He who chose us for this assignment as daddies and mummies. Of course, the temptation to hand over our daughters and our parenting jobs over to our in-laws the day we give them out in marriage will always be there. But it is a temptation we must resist as soon as the effects of red wine champagne wears off. Yeah. Wine-carrying, celebrated destination wedding ceremonies with the captains of industry and 10 governors in attendance is what it is, just another party. The marriage itself begins the following day. And let’s not forget that the young bride and groom had lived a protected life up until their wedding day. They were chauffeured to primary and secondary schools, assisted in picking their universities. Their NYSC postings were arranged by daddy. Their first jobs too via daddy’s connections. This is the first time they would be taking huge steps on their own. They probably will still be using daddy’s mechanic and mummy’s travel agent and caterer. Don’t bother denying it. We are all guilty of over-parenting. We all look forward so much to the days our children will get married that we forget there are things we must do, that is, beyond the small chops and assorted meals from here to China.
Raise your hand if you did a proper background check on your son’s wife before the wedding. Seriously? Yeah.
*Let me stress this point then. You must investigate your daughter’s suitor, your son’s intended. Don’t be overly excited by the diamond ring he gave her or the rich family she comes from. You must do your research. You must ensure you are not handing over your treasure to a pig who’ll go play in the mud with it. Most parents hardly ever do that background check before calling the wedding planner. Is he abusive? Does she throw flower vases at television sets? Does his father beat his mother? Is her mother cantankerous? Before you fix the wedding date, make sure you are not funding a ceremony that will put your child in an early grave. That is the pre-wedding warning.*
However, marriage is the critical point. While I think it is a sin to meddle in your children’s marriage, I also think it is a crime to push our children into the deep end of the pool without providing life jackets. Parents should let new couples totter, falter, fall even but be there to help them back on their feet. Watch from a distance but watch you must, keenly, discreetly, wisely. The fear of failure and what the society would say make a lot of new couples die in silence. Without being intrusive, nudge your daughter or daughter-in-law to speak freely. Call her to accompany you to a party you don’t want to attend alone. Start a topic that will help her open up. It could be a new television series, a movie with a relationship or marriage theme. And being a busy politician or high flying executive is not an excuse. I open such topics with my girls while they are helping me pick an  evening dress, do my make-up or while we are watching a movie that I had picked for that purpose. I have also had such intimate talks with my son as he drove us to church. 
Fathers, let your son-in-law accompany you to events, golf course, church, mosque. What’s wrong with an occasional barber-date together? Get your grooming Saturday in sync. It helps you see through what they may be trying to hide without asking probing questions. You have gained an extra child and that should be an advantage.
Stop by unannounced occasionally too and make such visits  brief, very brief.  Take along gifts. Those unannounced visits help you to catch them without rehearsed speeches. Hug the wife, she will wince or grunt if she has been kicked or punched. Does she have puffy eyes, discoloured cheeks or walking with a limp? If every time you go there, there is always a story why a piece of furniture is broken or cracked, one of them  may be violent, hurling coffee mugs at the television or kicking flower vases.
And if you discover that one of them is abusive, don’t expect them to sort it out on their own or with their pastor. An abusive wife or husband is a sick person. He needs help. She needs to see the appropriate doctor, it is an emergency. If the abusive partner refuses to get help, retrieve the one that belongs to you to safety. My mother used to counsel that a safe small corner on earth is better than a big space in the grave. You cannot fold your arms and hope she will stop slapping your son while she graduates to stabbing him. If he has pushed her down the staircase once and you leave her there, who will you blame when your church elders arrive with sober faces to break the news of your daughter?
Of course I know my pastor, and many other pastors reading this, will object to my ‘retrieve-your-child’ solution but I prefer my pastor chides me to him telling me ‘it is well’ later. God forbid. If a sick spouse gets help, the marriage can get back on track and everybody gets a chance to live happily ever after. And read the Bible too.Before you call the wedding planner

Thanksgiving Sunday

Once again I want to use this opportunity to congratulate you for making it to this new month. Waking up to see a new day is enough to thank God for the gift of life, not that we deserve it, but because of His grace and mercy.image

What are you thankful for today? What have changed in your life from January to December? Don’t know about you but am so grateful and all thanks to my Father in heaven.

So put on your dancing shoes, your beautiful clothes , your beautiful smile, and your cheerful hearts today as we worship in thanksgiving in the presence of our God.

Happy Thanksgiving guys!!!!

Fear God In Your Relationships And Actions: True Story

What have I not seen and heard in this life relating to relationship. Either in movies or in reality it all stands for something in our lives. 

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Relationships these days portrays discouragement to our younger generations. Because it’s what they see now they practice. Both men and women are guilty of this act. I watched a movie recently that made me cry and weep, revealing some devilish acts men do. 

In summary, there is this lady who is hardworking, beautiful, successful, in her mid 30’s working in a bank. This dude was interested in her, she gave it a shot to let him in, not knowing who he really was.

Men will go as far as they want, to get what they want from a woman

He proposed, they got married, had a daughter and life was peaceful. After two years, the guy was frequently visiting her office. He was looking for a way to get her password to her system. One day he was successful, his wife went for a meeting and left him in the office. He wired $300,000 to an offshore account and left the office, went home and packed his belongings. The lady was called by the management in the office about the missing funds from one of her accounts. She was confused because only her knew her password and she changes it every month. Until a video footage was shown to her, watching her so called husband operating on her system. She fainted instantly! 

After a week, the guy sent her an email indicating he came to her life just for the money and now is back to his fiancee. Common who does that? After the all incident you still sent her that mail.  I was like what is this world turning into? All for money. The movie was actually a true life story. 

We all should be vigilant and careful because it’s written in 1 Peter 5:8: Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.

Ladies you don’t need to rush into any relationship because of your age. Instead you pray to God for the right man for you. He who loves you won’t consider your age or status. He will love you for who you are. 

Same goes to the guys, you don’t need many girlfriends in your life for testing to get the right one. Pray to God for the woman for your life and He will give you. If you rush in, you may encounter a woman that’s just after material things, and when you don’t have any to offer she runs. 

Please this is a lesson to everyone out there, listen to the Holy Spirit, let Him guide you and choose the best partner for you. Fear God in your actions and in your relationships. 

I am still a novice in writing but I know this is a message for one or two people out there.. 

Have a blessed day!!! 

How To Love People Who Are Hard To Love 

In our daily lives we encounter different peeps with different problems. Those that makes us laugh, those that makes us sad, and those that gets us extremely angry and makes us dislike or hate them for the scene they create. Well according to Joyce Meyer teachings, there are ways to love people who hard to love. 

  • If you have to forgive, you forgive once but if you keep hating, you get to deal with that all day of your life
  • If you don’t know love, you don’t know God
  • If you don’t forgive those who who offended you, God won’t forgive you too. You will be so far from Him. 
  • Be kind to the people you come across with. 

Let’s indulge in the act of loving and forgiving today!!! 

Why You Should Settle Down And Believe God Is Not Angry With You 

Sometimes when the situation we in kicks us hard to the wall, we have this believe that God is angry with us. But am here to tell you that God ain’t angry with you. 

Will list out some points for you to stop believing whenever you in a mess, God is angry with you.

  • Don’t count your blessings or sins or good works
  • Every day feel good about yourself
  • God created us to fellowship wit Him and hang with Him through all our situations
  • Come in faith and ask for wisdom
  • Live by faith and believe God ain’t angry with you 
  • Jesus died for us why we were still yet sinners, He loves you
  • Separate yourself from who you are and what you do
  • The biggest problem we have is unbelief 

This is just a few, but what I know is thsyrby the time we speak to ourselves not to be condemned, we will live fully in His righteousness. 

How To Forgive And Forget 

🇩on’t know who have offended you, get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling, and slander, along with every form of malice. 

So how do you forget?  By handling it all over to God. He can take that hurt and pain and channel it into something beautiful. 

Bearing grudges on peeps who offended you is like having a cancer inside of you, it spreads rapidly throughout your body, strangling all the goodness until you are left with nothing but hatred and bitterness. 

🇱ove is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand it’s own way, it’s not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstances (I Corinthians 13:4-7).