You don’t have to have it all figured out at 21, or 30, or even 40. You’ll bloom when you’re ready. The only thing that matters is never giving up.
Don’t compare yourself with other people, compare yourself with who you were yesterday.
Work on being in love with the person in the mirror who has been through so much but is still standing.
If you want more joy, serve. If you want more money, solve problems. If you want more freedom, face your fears.
Maybe the past is like an anchor holding you back. Maybe, you have to let go of who you were to become who you will be.
You need people in your life that are further along than you, people that are more experienced, people that are out of your league. You need to be exposed to new levels so that you can go to new levels.
Change your conception of yourself and you will automatically change the world in which you live. Do not try to change people; they are only messengers telling you who you are. Revalue yourself and they will confirm the change.
Have a productive day!