Deternine to trust the lord and refuse to copy others! In fact,  refuse to follow the same process as you walk with God. Be open!  Be sensitive to the lord daily! He might lead you one way today and another way tomorrow on the same issue. 

If God answers your prayers, He is increasing your faith. If he delays, He is increasing your patience. If he does not answer, He is preparing the best for you!  Be open!  Trust Him, hear Him daily! Peter was sensitive!  Be the next!  God cannot be boxed.